Nothing is impossible

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21 yrs back in his grandma's place..

From one of the poorest family's chair to the most powerful chair in the world...!!!



Attitude leads person to any destiny...keep on moving...

OBAMA
O- Originally
B - Born in
A - Africa to
M - Manage
A – America

You..

Like a star you came into my life
You filled my heart with joy
You took my pain as if it was yours
You provided me with love that no one could give me
You gave me a shoulder to cry on
You were my pillar when I was falling
You were my strength when I was weak
With your smile you made my living on earth worthwhile
With the soft words you whispered in my ear
Made me realize that I was in Love indeed
Without you next to me my life is meaningless
Every day I sit and pray that you will remain as sweet as you are
And that is why I will always Love you as long as you let me

MUSIC.. can change your life..

You all know the old adage – “Music Hath Charms to Soothe the Savage Beast” – in actuality, it has been forever misquoted – it’s really “…to soothe the savage breast” –but either way, there can be no denying music’s power to change moods, and particularly from a somber or angry one – to happier.
Most people intuitively know that listening to music when they are feeling down or depressed can bolster their spirits. However recent research studies have shown that music, especially certain tones can clinically reduce stress. Music can alter brainwave patterns, as can yoga, deep breathing, and meditation – and bring on what is known as the Alpha State. Alpha is described as a state of deep relaxation, where the mind is totally stress-free and more open to problem solving. Using music to relax when dwelling on a particular problem then, may not only elevate your mood – but could help you reach that “a-ha” moment and find a solution.
Music has also been shown to increase the level of neurotransmitters such as serotonin, which are linked to mood. In this way music has been shown not only to make you feel good – but also, to be a great motivator. For example, during exercise, listening to music can keep you going, or get you to exercise more by helping you to ignore negative feelings of fatigue and focus on the pleasurable feelings you get from being absorbed in the music.
From Gregorian Chants to Gospel Music, there is a spiritual aspect to music that is undeniable. There is not a human culture in existence now or in antiquity that has not had music as part of religious ritual. There is even a belief that each of us has or can find his or her own “Power Song” that can help us to achieve all we want in life.
But beyond “The Search for the Lost Chord” – or the scientific rational of how or why music can change mood– music is at its most basic essence recorded emotion. When we listen to a piece of music we share the artist’s feelings on a visceral level. True, that can be sad, and who among us hasn’t put on a painful love song to share in the misery after a bad break-up. But, by the same token, we can share in the elation of songs of joy and happiness, or any song or piece of music that reminds us of a particular happy time in our past.
So next time you are feeling down, put on Beethoven’s “Ode to Joy” – or dust off your Bob Dylan albums – you may, or may not connect with the “Harmonic Vibrations of the Universe” but I bet you will feel a whole lot better about whatever it was that was bothering you!

Why Boys prefer joining BAJAJ ALLIANZ

Reason

Give yourself a good enough reason and you can get yourself to do whatever must be done. Give yourself a meaningful enough reason why, and it will happen.
Make yourself an offer that you can't refuse. Give yourself a reason that you cannot resist.

In an instant you can go from apathetic and unmotivated to enthusiastic and energetic. All you have to do is find that raw nerve of authentic desire, and touch it.

Allow yourself to want what you really want. Then allow yourself to be driven by that desire.
Every possibility is open to you. Latch on to one so positive and compelling that it won't leave you alone until you make it happen.

Give yourself a good enough reason and you'll give yourself plenty of motivation. Give yourself a good enough reason and you'll have no trouble moving quickly and decisively forward

Baade logon ki Baddi baatien..

Mr. Rahul Gandhi do this work just for an hour....without media.
Then tell us what you got...
If you really want to Change our India....No need to show us.....
We will follow you......Definitely.


“Karunaa”Nidhi Fasting




This is the comedy of the year.............. .Fasting starts after breakfast and ending before lunch. Interesting one!!

kids are the greatest teacher..!!

It was mid may. Me and my friend were at Big Bazaar. She had been shopping withher Mom in Big Bazaar. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful long haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning of the Big Bazaar. We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day.

I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child come pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.


Her voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in. "Mom, let's run through the rain," she said.
"What?" Mom asked.
"Let's run through the rain!" She repeated.
"No, beta. We'll wait until it slows down a bit," Mom replied.
This young child waited about another minute and repeated: "Mom, let'srun through the rain."
"We'll get soaked if we do," Mom said.


No, we won't, Mom. That's not what you said this morning," the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom's arm. "This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?" "Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, 'If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!"


The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes. Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life.


A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith. "beta, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If GOD let's us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing," Mom said. Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars. And yes, we did. We ran. We got wet. We needed washing.


Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories...

Reasons Why We Indian Cannot be a Terrorists

1. We are always late; we would have missed all 4 flights.

2. We would talk loudly and bring attention to ourselves.

3. With free food & drinks on the plane, we would forget why we're there.

4. We talk with our hands; therefore we would have to put our weapons down.

5. We would ALL want to fly the plane.

6. We would argue and start a fight in the plane.

7. We can't keep a secret; we would have told everyone a week before doing it.

8. We would have put our Country's flag on the wind shield.

9. We would have postponed the mission because a cricket match was going on that day.

10. We would have fallen over each other to be in the photograph being taken with the hostages

boss to boss rahenge..

When I Take a long time to finish,
I am slow,
When my boss takes a long time,
he is thorough

When I don't do it,
I am lazy,
When my boss does not do it,
he is busy,

When I do something without being told,
I am trying to
be smart,
When my boss does the same,
he takes the initiative,

When I please my boss,
I am apple polishing,
When my boss pleases his boss,
he is cooperating,

When I make a mistake,
I' am an idiot.
When my boss makes a mistake,
he's only human.

When I am out of the office,
I am wondering around.
When my boss is out of the office,
he's on business.

When I am on a day off sick,
I am always sick.
When my boss is a day off sick,
he must be very ill.

When I apply for leave,
I must be going for an
interview
When my boss applies for leave,
it's because he's
overworked

When I do good,
my boss never remembers,
When I do wrong,
he never forgets

Realisation

Yesterday, I was driving, and the FM radio went off for few seconds. I thought, I should have an iPod. Then suddenly I realized that I have not used my iPod in last 6 months. And then… more things, Handy cam in last 2 years, Digital Camera in last 2 months, DVD player in last 1 month and many more. Now I can say that I bought that Handy cam just out of impulse, I have used it twice only in last 4 years.

So, whats wrong and where? When I look at myself or my friends I can see it everywhere.We are not happy with what we have but all are stressed and not happy for the things we don’t have. You have a Santro, but you want City… You have a City, but you want Skoda. Just after buying a new phone, we need another one. Better laptop, bigger TV, faster car, bigger house, more money… .I mean, these examples are endless. The point is, does it actually worth? Do we ever think if we actually need those things before we want them?

After this, I was forced to think what I need and what I don’t. May be I didn’t need this Handy cam or the iPod or that DVD player. When I see my father back at home. He has a simple BPL color tv, he doesn’t need 32″Sony LCD wall mount. He has a cellphone worth Rs 2,500. Whenever I ask him to change the phone, he always says… “Its a phone, I need this just for calls.” And believe me; he is much happier in life than me with those limited resources and simple gadgets. The very basic reason why he is happy with so little is that he doesn’t want things in life to make it luxurious, but he wants only those things which are making his life easier.It’s a very fine line between these two, but after looking my father’s life style closely, I got the point. He needs a cell phone but! not the iPhone. He needs a TV but not the 32″plasma. He needs a car but not an expensive one.

Initially I had lot of questions.

I am earning good, still I am not happy…...why ?

I have all luxuries, still I am stressed........... why ?

I had a great weekend, still I am feeling tired...... why?

I met lot of people, I thought over it again and again, I still don’t know if I got the answers, but certainly figured out few things. I realize that one thing which is keeping me stressed is the “stay connected” syndrome. I realized that, at home also I am logged in on messengers, checking mails, using social networks, and on the top of that, the windows mobile is not letting me disconnected. On the weekend itself, trying to avoid unwanted calls…and that is keeping my mind always full of stress. I realized that I am spending far lesser money than what I earn, even then I am always worried about money and more money. I realized that I am saving enough money I would ever need, whenever needed. Still I am stressed about job and salary and spends.

May be, many people will call this approach “not progressive attitude“, but I want my life back.Ultimately it’s a single life, a day gone is a day gone. I believe if I am not happy tonight, I’ll never be happy tomorrow morning. I finally realized that meeting friends, spending quality time with your loved one’s; spending time with yourself is the most important thing. If on Sunday you are alone and you don’t have anybody to talk with, then all that luxuries life, all that money is wasted. May be cutting down your requirements, re-calculating your future goal in the light of today’s happiness is a worthwhile thing to do. May be selling off your Santro and buying Honda City on EMIs is not a good idea. I believe putting your happiness ahead of money is the choice we need to make.

I think, a lot can be said and done but what we need the most is re-evaluation of the value of happiness and time we are giving to our life and people associate with it.

Another Day

I woke up early today, excited over all I get to do before the day ends.

I have responsibilities to fulfill today. I am important.
My job is to choose what kind of day I am going to have.

Today I can complain because the weather is rainy or ...
I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free.

Today I can grumble about my health or... I can rejoice that I am alive.

Today I can mourn my lack of friends or...
I can excitedly embark upon a quest to discover new relationships.

Today I can whine because I have to go to work or...
I can shout for joy because I have a job to do.

Today I can murmur dejectedly because I have to do housework or...
I can feel honored because Life has provided shelter for my mind, body and soul

Today stretches ahead of me, waiting to be shaped.
And here I am, the sculptor who gets to do the shaping.

What today will be like is up to me.
I get to choose what kind of day I will have!

Why Not Have A Great Day!

Kindness

Kindness is one of the most powerful tools available to you. Kindness can Positively transform your world in a way that nothing else can. When your Heart is filled with kindness, your thoughts and actions are driven by a
Positive, creative force. Instead of being needlessly distracted by anger, Envy or despair, your eyes are more fully open to the many valuable Possibilities.

Act with kindness toward others. You'll create an atmosphere of Understanding and cooperation in which amazing things can be accomplished. Be kind to yourself. You'll make it possible to clearly focus your
Considerable creative energy on achieving the highest and best of your Dreams.

Choose to act with kindness, and you free yourself from the heavy burden of Negativity. Persist in your kindness, and you rise to higher and higher Levels of true, meaningful accomplishment. Kindness transforms profoundly and spreads quickly. Let kindness freely flow From you, and it will surely change your world...

Meaning of relationship with female friends

Girls' relationship with guys is a bigger mystery than girls themselves. It's not just about boyfriends, we're talking about guy friends that gals have.
Do you have a gal who is just a friend? Are you confused why the frequency of calls increases as exams come closer? Or why she always hangs around with the moron who isn't fit to wear Jeetendra's white shoes? Here's a ready reckoner for you:


* just a friend *
Well, you are like a show piece in my house. I will call you whenever I need you. If you call me home the chances are 9 out of 10 times she might say, "Oh Raj, I am going out can you call me after 2 days??"

Raj: "Where are you going Shilpa??"
Shilpa: "None of your business" and bangs the phone.(Useless fellow.Hmmph!).


* Good Friend *
You are like a TV remote control. I need you and I know that but I try using you when I really need you.

Raj calls: "Hi Shilpa",
Shilpa: "Hi Raj. I am going out with family I will call you back. Bye"

(Shilpa eventually calls back after two days)
Shilpa: "What do you want Raj? Why did you call that day?"..
Raj: "Generally".

Shilpa: "Oh ok. I got to go out. Will call you later. Bye."
Will call when she needs lecture notes or some concert tickets.


* Very good friend *
Well you are like the pressure cooker safety value for the girl, she will need you when she wants to bring out her pain or anger on someone. Basically, she wants to talk to you and you are special toher.

Shilpa: "You know Raj, Shekhar is not eating. He doesn't sleep and is not able to concentrate on his studies. I think he doesn't like me anymore and yesterday I saw him with another girl".
Raj: "Who is Shekhar??"

Shilpa : "My boyfriend."
Raj: Oh! ok.


* Best Friend *
You are like the auto rickshaw driver. She can't live without you and don't be mistaken, You are not her boyfriend. But you are allowed to take her little doggie around the park so that he (not you!) can have fun.

Raj Shopping. Raj Movie. Raj Coffee Raj, you pay. I am having fun.

Raj is now sure that he should go ahead and propose. He dares.
Shilpa: "But I thought we were just friends. We should remain friends Raj. Plus, I have a boy friend you know that."
Raj: What?? (Raj drinks all night).


* Best of the Bestest Friends *
Ok now you are really special, You are dad-cum-boyfriend- cum-brother- cum-everything, Ultimately you are the darling servant of the girl.

You take her around.
You make her project.
You do her assignments.
You are allowed to take her doggie around.
You can hold hands on the beach.
You can see the sun set with her (because she wants to do everything she drags you along).
But but but... don't be mistaken. She has a boyfriend who works for a huge software company and earns 5 times the salary you earn and has a posh flat in an up class area.

Shilpa: "Hi Raj. I am getting engaged to Shekhar. Shekhar this is Raj, he is my bestest friend".

Raj: Hi Shekhar . (Hand shake. Shekhar breaks Raj's wrist).
Raj is now heart broken and wrist broken.


* Boyfriend *
Uh... No comments dude. You're already Gone!

For all Raj type guys? Make sure that you tell Shilpa about Mamta and about Maya? and about Tina also?

This will open Shilpa's eyes!!!!

Intezaar hai uska..

AaNkhoN ko uska intezaar hai
jis anjaani surat se pyaar hai

dhuNdhta huN usko her taraf
uske liye hi dil bekharaar hai

jalwa uska madhosh kar deta hai
uske ishq ka aysa khumaar hai

phooloN ki kya aukaat uske saamne
wo khud khushbu ki bahaar hai

Chaand taaroN ki kyoN aarzu kareiN
jab chaand jaisa uska yaar hai

mumkin nahi mile her khushi zindagi meiN
kabhi zindagi meiN jeet hai, to kabhi haar hai

aaNkhoN ko uska intezaar hai
jis anjaani surat se pyaar hai !!

how much i love you

Each Day I am Holding a Hope to
Welcome the Next Day.

You know Why?
Because I am Waiting for You.

Even though I'm Laughing
But you didn't Try to See My Feelings.

My Pains And my Life Without You
Just See Once You will Realize Then,
How Much I do Love You?
Each Day I am Holding a Hope to
Welcome the Next Day.

You know Why?
Because I am Waiting for You.

Even though I'm Laughing
But you didn't Try to See My Feelings.

My Pains And my Life Without You
Just See Once You will Realize Then,
How Much I do Love You?

Change is one thing that will never Change

Happened to Meet one of my old friend(not in age) after several years...n..he told me "You were not the same as you used to be"....I replied back "Yup,I not the innocent person of those good or bad old years back"..."To survive in this society I was raped of my Innocence long back"...He looked petrified as i uttered the word "rape'....I paused a bit and thought of the Social Stigma attached to these kind of words...Remembered a famous dialogue from the Italian Movie 'Non ti muovere' "Everyone is Cruel;Some Less, Some More"....
That took my memory lanes pluging back n I remembered a particular Person...Happen to Meet him casually in a Bar...My friend introduced him and I could not remember his face that day...May be i was too drunk...So the next day when he greeted me n asked "Remember Me"...I told "Yes" though I couldnt remember him...From then on...I happen to meet him often n we shared our thoughts often too...I figured out he was an intellect and had lost many things...mainly money invested in shares...Told him "Losing is just part n parcel of the Game,You Lose Some You gain Some" though I never lost anything other than my words in that conversation...I pledged "I would never invest my Money in Shares";I couldn't by any means coz I was studying at that time...
This continued for some months....Suddenly he was gone...I enquired my friend n he had no idea...later i came to know that He was taken by the Police...When i explored more I came to know that he was a Terrorist...I was shocked n was lost for words..."What the hell in the world turned him into a terrorist?"...I wondered n figured out My Question itself had the answer..."Yes the world n the People living in it were responsible for that"...
"Start the Bike,Lets Go!!",My Friend yelled rather Politely...I came back to Reality n Raced through...remembering those famous quotes "Change is one thing that will probably never Change"...

Main aisa kyon hun

Kyon khush ho jata hun main
tumhari khushi dekh ke
kyon ho jaata hun main hataash
tumhein udaas dekh ke…

Chahak sa uthta hun main kyon
jab milne ki baari aati hain
par kyon milne baad ghanto
neend nahi aati hain…

Aankhein band karne se kyon
yaad tumhari aati hain
par jab khulti hain toh
kyon phir tu samne aati hain…

Aanso tere tapakte hain
to main kyon sisakta hun
Zara si tu hasti hain
toh main kyon nikharta hun..

Jab bhi dekhta hun tumhe
bas yeh sochta hun
pucho tumse ya tumse kahun
rakhun dil mein ye baat ya keh dun…

Sun jara bas itna bata
Main aisa kyon hun
Main aisa kyon hun…

Political parties match their symbols ...

Political parties match their symbols ...


Q: Why is the Samajwadi Party's symbol 'Cycle'?
A: Because after a ban on English and use of computers, that's all we'll be able to afford


Q: Why is the Congress party's symbol 'Hand'?
A: To remind Indians that our fate is forever in the hand of one family


Q: Why is BJP Symbol 'Lotus'?
A: Lotus is the symbol of Sarawasti and learning. BJP will educate us through the wisdom of Varun Gandhi and Pravin Togadia.


Q: Why is Mayawati's symbol 'Elephant'?
A: It's a self portrait.


Q: Why is Jayalalitha' s symbol 'Two leaves'?
A: Because that's what remained after Amma ate up all the fruit


Q: Why is DMK's symbol 'Sun'?
A: So that Karunanidhi can justify wearing shades indoors


Q: Why is Lalu's symbol 'Lantern'?
A: Because there's no electricity in Bihar


Q: Why is CPM's symbol 'Hammer and Sickle'?
A: Because that's what you will be using if they come to power


Q: Why is Sharad Pawar's symbol 'Clock'?
A: Because his time never seems to come


Q: Why is Shiv Sena's symbol 'Bow and Arrow'?
A: I can tell you, but then I'll have to shoot you

3rd may 2011

sab se chupa kar dard jo maine muskura diya....
us ki hansi ne to aaj mujhe rula diya.....

leher sa uth raha tha har ik dard ka dhuaan...
chehra bata raha tha k kuch ganwa diya...

aawaz mein tthay-rao tha, aankhoon mein nami thi...
or keh raha tha k mein ne sab kuch bhula diya....

jane kya us ko loghon se thi shikayatein....
tanhaiyon ke desh mein khud ko basa diya...

khud bhi woh hum se bichar kar adhura sa ho gaya....
mujh ko bhi itne loghon mein tanha bana diya....

Ansoo..

Bighi Palkon Tale Hum Ne Chupae Ansoo,
Hasna Chaha Maghar Ankh Me Aaye Ansoo,

Tum Ko Malum Shayad Ho Ke Na Ho,
Tere Jane Pe Bohat Hum Ne Bahaye Ansoo,

Pyar Ik Khel Kahan Tha? Ke Tamasha Karte,
Hum Ne Yeh Soch Ke Khud Se Bhi Chupaye Ansoo,

Jo Tere Sangh Beete The Vo Din Yaad Bhohat Aaye,
Hum Ne Teri Judai Pe Bahaye Ansoo,

Tu Sada Khush Rahe,
Abad Rahe,
Shad Rahe,
Teri Ankh Me Kabhi Ek Bhi Na Ae Ansoo..