god do exist...

A man went to a barber shop to have his hair and his beard cut as always. He began to have a good conversation with the barber who attended him. They talked about so many things and various subjects. Suddenly, they touched on the subject of God.


The barber said: "Look man, I don't believe that God exists."


"Why do you say that?" asked the customer.


"Well, it's so easy,you just have to go out in the street to realize that God does not exist."


"Oh"


"tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children?
If God exists,there would be no suffering nor pain. I can't think of loving a God who permits all of these things."


The customer thought for a moment, but he didn't respond because he did not want to start an argument.The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.


Just after he left the barber shop, he saw a man in the street with long hair and a beard.


It was very long, and a long time since he had his hair cut. He looked dirty and unkempt.


The customer entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber: "You know what? Barbers do not exist."


"How can you say they don't exist?"asked the surprised barber. " I am here and I am a barber. Why I just worked on you!"


"No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist, because if they did there would be no people with long hair and beard like that man who is outside."


"Ah, barbers do exist, what happens is that people do not come to me."


"Exactly!"- affirmed the customer. "That's the point! God does exist. What happens is people don't go to Him and do not look for Him. That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."

Why should we believe in love..

We are going through a very peculiar period, mainly in respect to subjects that concern the heart, affective relations and our availability to love or, at least, try to.

No matter how much we talk about these possibilities, how much we look forward for great romances, there is something contradictory in the air… We have a general and well-known difficulty in trusting the others, a fear to surrender, besides the apparent (or real) human wickedness, in detriment of what has been promised and what was expressed as being a deep and genuine feeling.

It looks as if a person were in love one day… and, on the following, everything were over. So, why should we go on believing in love? Why should we go on investing, betting, and opening space for new relationships?

You know, no matter of how much I believe – and I truly do! – that there are noble, sincere and transparent persons who do look forward to living relationships founded on respect for themselves and the others, sometimes some incidents really shock me and I inevitably ask: myself if insisting in this search would not be pure innocence and even stubbornness.

Couples who have everything to be happy, people who really want happiness, disheartened and fragile men and women that would give their best in trying to feel a little – even if just a little – less lost, less confused, safer, more fulfilled… and however, fall in traps without knowing how to avoid them.

Lies, deceits, pains, incoherencies or mere and sudden diagnoses of what seemed to be a special meeting suddenly has no flavor… What a mess..., how sad and miserable such a situation appears... and gives each partner - or both - a dreadful feeling of not knowing what happened.

And as we experience one disenchantment after another, we loose our faith in life, our joy and become disheartened, empty, hurt, and not willing to give it a new try...

It would be easy for me to talk about so many couples that I see in love, happy and completing each other… because I do believe this is possible and I can see many relationships like these. However, lately, I have been receiving testimonies of people who feel incapable of engaging in a new relationship because they can no longer face unhappiness and, definitively, refuse to be disappointed once more…

Such people cannot see or believe something that does not happen to them, but I still have something that, in my opinion, will convince us not to give up.

We create our world. We are people: you and me, and all that live in your house, everybody you know and also who you don’t. Love and relationships are reflections of each one of us, of our choices and intentions. The world is a consequence of these people. And this includes you and me, and some six billions of souls.

Therefore, in order to change this reality, something inside us must change in such a strong and positive manner that it will be able to change this external reality. And however insignificant you feel your belief, your choice or your attitude looks towards the immensity of the universe, this is just an illusion.
You can hardly imagine the importance you have in this scenery and in the intense process of evolution and mature ness our planet is going through. And if you give up, if you do not believe in love, much will be lost. Hundreds of people will suffer for that reason.
You may even not believe what I’m saying but it is a fact and it is logic. This is why I do ask you to take a deep breath and give yourself one more chance, with no restrictions and without pointing fingers at each other, but keeping in mind you are doing your utmost for it to work out.

Thus, love will become bigger and deeper and even if it is only your grandsons who enjoy the outcomes, the world will be happier and with more love because of you!

Nothing is impossible

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21 yrs back in his grandma's place..

From one of the poorest family's chair to the most powerful chair in the world...!!!



Attitude leads person to any destiny...keep on moving...

OBAMA
O- Originally
B - Born in
A - Africa to
M - Manage
A – America

You..

Like a star you came into my life
You filled my heart with joy
You took my pain as if it was yours
You provided me with love that no one could give me
You gave me a shoulder to cry on
You were my pillar when I was falling
You were my strength when I was weak
With your smile you made my living on earth worthwhile
With the soft words you whispered in my ear
Made me realize that I was in Love indeed
Without you next to me my life is meaningless
Every day I sit and pray that you will remain as sweet as you are
And that is why I will always Love you as long as you let me

MUSIC.. can change your life..

You all know the old adage – “Music Hath Charms to Soothe the Savage Beast” – in actuality, it has been forever misquoted – it’s really “…to soothe the savage breast” –but either way, there can be no denying music’s power to change moods, and particularly from a somber or angry one – to happier.
Most people intuitively know that listening to music when they are feeling down or depressed can bolster their spirits. However recent research studies have shown that music, especially certain tones can clinically reduce stress. Music can alter brainwave patterns, as can yoga, deep breathing, and meditation – and bring on what is known as the Alpha State. Alpha is described as a state of deep relaxation, where the mind is totally stress-free and more open to problem solving. Using music to relax when dwelling on a particular problem then, may not only elevate your mood – but could help you reach that “a-ha” moment and find a solution.
Music has also been shown to increase the level of neurotransmitters such as serotonin, which are linked to mood. In this way music has been shown not only to make you feel good – but also, to be a great motivator. For example, during exercise, listening to music can keep you going, or get you to exercise more by helping you to ignore negative feelings of fatigue and focus on the pleasurable feelings you get from being absorbed in the music.
From Gregorian Chants to Gospel Music, there is a spiritual aspect to music that is undeniable. There is not a human culture in existence now or in antiquity that has not had music as part of religious ritual. There is even a belief that each of us has or can find his or her own “Power Song” that can help us to achieve all we want in life.
But beyond “The Search for the Lost Chord” – or the scientific rational of how or why music can change mood– music is at its most basic essence recorded emotion. When we listen to a piece of music we share the artist’s feelings on a visceral level. True, that can be sad, and who among us hasn’t put on a painful love song to share in the misery after a bad break-up. But, by the same token, we can share in the elation of songs of joy and happiness, or any song or piece of music that reminds us of a particular happy time in our past.
So next time you are feeling down, put on Beethoven’s “Ode to Joy” – or dust off your Bob Dylan albums – you may, or may not connect with the “Harmonic Vibrations of the Universe” but I bet you will feel a whole lot better about whatever it was that was bothering you!

Why Boys prefer joining BAJAJ ALLIANZ

Reason

Give yourself a good enough reason and you can get yourself to do whatever must be done. Give yourself a meaningful enough reason why, and it will happen.
Make yourself an offer that you can't refuse. Give yourself a reason that you cannot resist.

In an instant you can go from apathetic and unmotivated to enthusiastic and energetic. All you have to do is find that raw nerve of authentic desire, and touch it.

Allow yourself to want what you really want. Then allow yourself to be driven by that desire.
Every possibility is open to you. Latch on to one so positive and compelling that it won't leave you alone until you make it happen.

Give yourself a good enough reason and you'll give yourself plenty of motivation. Give yourself a good enough reason and you'll have no trouble moving quickly and decisively forward

Baade logon ki Baddi baatien..

Mr. Rahul Gandhi do this work just for an hour....without media.
Then tell us what you got...
If you really want to Change our India....No need to show us.....
We will follow you......Definitely.


“Karunaa”Nidhi Fasting




This is the comedy of the year.............. .Fasting starts after breakfast and ending before lunch. Interesting one!!

kids are the greatest teacher..!!

It was mid may. Me and my friend were at Big Bazaar. She had been shopping withher Mom in Big Bazaar. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful long haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning of the Big Bazaar. We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day.

I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child come pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.


Her voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in. "Mom, let's run through the rain," she said.
"What?" Mom asked.
"Let's run through the rain!" She repeated.
"No, beta. We'll wait until it slows down a bit," Mom replied.
This young child waited about another minute and repeated: "Mom, let'srun through the rain."
"We'll get soaked if we do," Mom said.


No, we won't, Mom. That's not what you said this morning," the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom's arm. "This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?" "Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, 'If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!"


The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes. Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life.


A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith. "beta, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If GOD let's us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing," Mom said. Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars. And yes, we did. We ran. We got wet. We needed washing.


Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories...

Reasons Why We Indian Cannot be a Terrorists

1. We are always late; we would have missed all 4 flights.

2. We would talk loudly and bring attention to ourselves.

3. With free food & drinks on the plane, we would forget why we're there.

4. We talk with our hands; therefore we would have to put our weapons down.

5. We would ALL want to fly the plane.

6. We would argue and start a fight in the plane.

7. We can't keep a secret; we would have told everyone a week before doing it.

8. We would have put our Country's flag on the wind shield.

9. We would have postponed the mission because a cricket match was going on that day.

10. We would have fallen over each other to be in the photograph being taken with the hostages

boss to boss rahenge..

When I Take a long time to finish,
I am slow,
When my boss takes a long time,
he is thorough

When I don't do it,
I am lazy,
When my boss does not do it,
he is busy,

When I do something without being told,
I am trying to
be smart,
When my boss does the same,
he takes the initiative,

When I please my boss,
I am apple polishing,
When my boss pleases his boss,
he is cooperating,

When I make a mistake,
I' am an idiot.
When my boss makes a mistake,
he's only human.

When I am out of the office,
I am wondering around.
When my boss is out of the office,
he's on business.

When I am on a day off sick,
I am always sick.
When my boss is a day off sick,
he must be very ill.

When I apply for leave,
I must be going for an
interview
When my boss applies for leave,
it's because he's
overworked

When I do good,
my boss never remembers,
When I do wrong,
he never forgets

Realisation

Yesterday, I was driving, and the FM radio went off for few seconds. I thought, I should have an iPod. Then suddenly I realized that I have not used my iPod in last 6 months. And then… more things, Handy cam in last 2 years, Digital Camera in last 2 months, DVD player in last 1 month and many more. Now I can say that I bought that Handy cam just out of impulse, I have used it twice only in last 4 years.

So, whats wrong and where? When I look at myself or my friends I can see it everywhere.We are not happy with what we have but all are stressed and not happy for the things we don’t have. You have a Santro, but you want City… You have a City, but you want Skoda. Just after buying a new phone, we need another one. Better laptop, bigger TV, faster car, bigger house, more money… .I mean, these examples are endless. The point is, does it actually worth? Do we ever think if we actually need those things before we want them?

After this, I was forced to think what I need and what I don’t. May be I didn’t need this Handy cam or the iPod or that DVD player. When I see my father back at home. He has a simple BPL color tv, he doesn’t need 32″Sony LCD wall mount. He has a cellphone worth Rs 2,500. Whenever I ask him to change the phone, he always says… “Its a phone, I need this just for calls.” And believe me; he is much happier in life than me with those limited resources and simple gadgets. The very basic reason why he is happy with so little is that he doesn’t want things in life to make it luxurious, but he wants only those things which are making his life easier.It’s a very fine line between these two, but after looking my father’s life style closely, I got the point. He needs a cell phone but! not the iPhone. He needs a TV but not the 32″plasma. He needs a car but not an expensive one.

Initially I had lot of questions.

I am earning good, still I am not happy…...why ?

I have all luxuries, still I am stressed........... why ?

I had a great weekend, still I am feeling tired...... why?

I met lot of people, I thought over it again and again, I still don’t know if I got the answers, but certainly figured out few things. I realize that one thing which is keeping me stressed is the “stay connected” syndrome. I realized that, at home also I am logged in on messengers, checking mails, using social networks, and on the top of that, the windows mobile is not letting me disconnected. On the weekend itself, trying to avoid unwanted calls…and that is keeping my mind always full of stress. I realized that I am spending far lesser money than what I earn, even then I am always worried about money and more money. I realized that I am saving enough money I would ever need, whenever needed. Still I am stressed about job and salary and spends.

May be, many people will call this approach “not progressive attitude“, but I want my life back.Ultimately it’s a single life, a day gone is a day gone. I believe if I am not happy tonight, I’ll never be happy tomorrow morning. I finally realized that meeting friends, spending quality time with your loved one’s; spending time with yourself is the most important thing. If on Sunday you are alone and you don’t have anybody to talk with, then all that luxuries life, all that money is wasted. May be cutting down your requirements, re-calculating your future goal in the light of today’s happiness is a worthwhile thing to do. May be selling off your Santro and buying Honda City on EMIs is not a good idea. I believe putting your happiness ahead of money is the choice we need to make.

I think, a lot can be said and done but what we need the most is re-evaluation of the value of happiness and time we are giving to our life and people associate with it.

Another Day

I woke up early today, excited over all I get to do before the day ends.

I have responsibilities to fulfill today. I am important.
My job is to choose what kind of day I am going to have.

Today I can complain because the weather is rainy or ...
I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free.

Today I can grumble about my health or... I can rejoice that I am alive.

Today I can mourn my lack of friends or...
I can excitedly embark upon a quest to discover new relationships.

Today I can whine because I have to go to work or...
I can shout for joy because I have a job to do.

Today I can murmur dejectedly because I have to do housework or...
I can feel honored because Life has provided shelter for my mind, body and soul

Today stretches ahead of me, waiting to be shaped.
And here I am, the sculptor who gets to do the shaping.

What today will be like is up to me.
I get to choose what kind of day I will have!

Why Not Have A Great Day!

Kindness

Kindness is one of the most powerful tools available to you. Kindness can Positively transform your world in a way that nothing else can. When your Heart is filled with kindness, your thoughts and actions are driven by a
Positive, creative force. Instead of being needlessly distracted by anger, Envy or despair, your eyes are more fully open to the many valuable Possibilities.

Act with kindness toward others. You'll create an atmosphere of Understanding and cooperation in which amazing things can be accomplished. Be kind to yourself. You'll make it possible to clearly focus your
Considerable creative energy on achieving the highest and best of your Dreams.

Choose to act with kindness, and you free yourself from the heavy burden of Negativity. Persist in your kindness, and you rise to higher and higher Levels of true, meaningful accomplishment. Kindness transforms profoundly and spreads quickly. Let kindness freely flow From you, and it will surely change your world...

Meaning of relationship with female friends

Girls' relationship with guys is a bigger mystery than girls themselves. It's not just about boyfriends, we're talking about guy friends that gals have.
Do you have a gal who is just a friend? Are you confused why the frequency of calls increases as exams come closer? Or why she always hangs around with the moron who isn't fit to wear Jeetendra's white shoes? Here's a ready reckoner for you:


* just a friend *
Well, you are like a show piece in my house. I will call you whenever I need you. If you call me home the chances are 9 out of 10 times she might say, "Oh Raj, I am going out can you call me after 2 days??"

Raj: "Where are you going Shilpa??"
Shilpa: "None of your business" and bangs the phone.(Useless fellow.Hmmph!).


* Good Friend *
You are like a TV remote control. I need you and I know that but I try using you when I really need you.

Raj calls: "Hi Shilpa",
Shilpa: "Hi Raj. I am going out with family I will call you back. Bye"

(Shilpa eventually calls back after two days)
Shilpa: "What do you want Raj? Why did you call that day?"..
Raj: "Generally".

Shilpa: "Oh ok. I got to go out. Will call you later. Bye."
Will call when she needs lecture notes or some concert tickets.


* Very good friend *
Well you are like the pressure cooker safety value for the girl, she will need you when she wants to bring out her pain or anger on someone. Basically, she wants to talk to you and you are special toher.

Shilpa: "You know Raj, Shekhar is not eating. He doesn't sleep and is not able to concentrate on his studies. I think he doesn't like me anymore and yesterday I saw him with another girl".
Raj: "Who is Shekhar??"

Shilpa : "My boyfriend."
Raj: Oh! ok.


* Best Friend *
You are like the auto rickshaw driver. She can't live without you and don't be mistaken, You are not her boyfriend. But you are allowed to take her little doggie around the park so that he (not you!) can have fun.

Raj Shopping. Raj Movie. Raj Coffee Raj, you pay. I am having fun.

Raj is now sure that he should go ahead and propose. He dares.
Shilpa: "But I thought we were just friends. We should remain friends Raj. Plus, I have a boy friend you know that."
Raj: What?? (Raj drinks all night).


* Best of the Bestest Friends *
Ok now you are really special, You are dad-cum-boyfriend- cum-brother- cum-everything, Ultimately you are the darling servant of the girl.

You take her around.
You make her project.
You do her assignments.
You are allowed to take her doggie around.
You can hold hands on the beach.
You can see the sun set with her (because she wants to do everything she drags you along).
But but but... don't be mistaken. She has a boyfriend who works for a huge software company and earns 5 times the salary you earn and has a posh flat in an up class area.

Shilpa: "Hi Raj. I am getting engaged to Shekhar. Shekhar this is Raj, he is my bestest friend".

Raj: Hi Shekhar . (Hand shake. Shekhar breaks Raj's wrist).
Raj is now heart broken and wrist broken.


* Boyfriend *
Uh... No comments dude. You're already Gone!

For all Raj type guys? Make sure that you tell Shilpa about Mamta and about Maya? and about Tina also?

This will open Shilpa's eyes!!!!

Intezaar hai uska..

AaNkhoN ko uska intezaar hai
jis anjaani surat se pyaar hai

dhuNdhta huN usko her taraf
uske liye hi dil bekharaar hai

jalwa uska madhosh kar deta hai
uske ishq ka aysa khumaar hai

phooloN ki kya aukaat uske saamne
wo khud khushbu ki bahaar hai

Chaand taaroN ki kyoN aarzu kareiN
jab chaand jaisa uska yaar hai

mumkin nahi mile her khushi zindagi meiN
kabhi zindagi meiN jeet hai, to kabhi haar hai

aaNkhoN ko uska intezaar hai
jis anjaani surat se pyaar hai !!

how much i love you

Each Day I am Holding a Hope to
Welcome the Next Day.

You know Why?
Because I am Waiting for You.

Even though I'm Laughing
But you didn't Try to See My Feelings.

My Pains And my Life Without You
Just See Once You will Realize Then,
How Much I do Love You?
Each Day I am Holding a Hope to
Welcome the Next Day.

You know Why?
Because I am Waiting for You.

Even though I'm Laughing
But you didn't Try to See My Feelings.

My Pains And my Life Without You
Just See Once You will Realize Then,
How Much I do Love You?

Change is one thing that will never Change

Happened to Meet one of my old friend(not in age) after several years...n..he told me "You were not the same as you used to be"....I replied back "Yup,I not the innocent person of those good or bad old years back"..."To survive in this society I was raped of my Innocence long back"...He looked petrified as i uttered the word "rape'....I paused a bit and thought of the Social Stigma attached to these kind of words...Remembered a famous dialogue from the Italian Movie 'Non ti muovere' "Everyone is Cruel;Some Less, Some More"....
That took my memory lanes pluging back n I remembered a particular Person...Happen to Meet him casually in a Bar...My friend introduced him and I could not remember his face that day...May be i was too drunk...So the next day when he greeted me n asked "Remember Me"...I told "Yes" though I couldnt remember him...From then on...I happen to meet him often n we shared our thoughts often too...I figured out he was an intellect and had lost many things...mainly money invested in shares...Told him "Losing is just part n parcel of the Game,You Lose Some You gain Some" though I never lost anything other than my words in that conversation...I pledged "I would never invest my Money in Shares";I couldn't by any means coz I was studying at that time...
This continued for some months....Suddenly he was gone...I enquired my friend n he had no idea...later i came to know that He was taken by the Police...When i explored more I came to know that he was a Terrorist...I was shocked n was lost for words..."What the hell in the world turned him into a terrorist?"...I wondered n figured out My Question itself had the answer..."Yes the world n the People living in it were responsible for that"...
"Start the Bike,Lets Go!!",My Friend yelled rather Politely...I came back to Reality n Raced through...remembering those famous quotes "Change is one thing that will probably never Change"...

Main aisa kyon hun

Kyon khush ho jata hun main
tumhari khushi dekh ke
kyon ho jaata hun main hataash
tumhein udaas dekh ke…

Chahak sa uthta hun main kyon
jab milne ki baari aati hain
par kyon milne baad ghanto
neend nahi aati hain…

Aankhein band karne se kyon
yaad tumhari aati hain
par jab khulti hain toh
kyon phir tu samne aati hain…

Aanso tere tapakte hain
to main kyon sisakta hun
Zara si tu hasti hain
toh main kyon nikharta hun..

Jab bhi dekhta hun tumhe
bas yeh sochta hun
pucho tumse ya tumse kahun
rakhun dil mein ye baat ya keh dun…

Sun jara bas itna bata
Main aisa kyon hun
Main aisa kyon hun…

Political parties match their symbols ...

Political parties match their symbols ...


Q: Why is the Samajwadi Party's symbol 'Cycle'?
A: Because after a ban on English and use of computers, that's all we'll be able to afford


Q: Why is the Congress party's symbol 'Hand'?
A: To remind Indians that our fate is forever in the hand of one family


Q: Why is BJP Symbol 'Lotus'?
A: Lotus is the symbol of Sarawasti and learning. BJP will educate us through the wisdom of Varun Gandhi and Pravin Togadia.


Q: Why is Mayawati's symbol 'Elephant'?
A: It's a self portrait.


Q: Why is Jayalalitha' s symbol 'Two leaves'?
A: Because that's what remained after Amma ate up all the fruit


Q: Why is DMK's symbol 'Sun'?
A: So that Karunanidhi can justify wearing shades indoors


Q: Why is Lalu's symbol 'Lantern'?
A: Because there's no electricity in Bihar


Q: Why is CPM's symbol 'Hammer and Sickle'?
A: Because that's what you will be using if they come to power


Q: Why is Sharad Pawar's symbol 'Clock'?
A: Because his time never seems to come


Q: Why is Shiv Sena's symbol 'Bow and Arrow'?
A: I can tell you, but then I'll have to shoot you

3rd may 2011

sab se chupa kar dard jo maine muskura diya....
us ki hansi ne to aaj mujhe rula diya.....

leher sa uth raha tha har ik dard ka dhuaan...
chehra bata raha tha k kuch ganwa diya...

aawaz mein tthay-rao tha, aankhoon mein nami thi...
or keh raha tha k mein ne sab kuch bhula diya....

jane kya us ko loghon se thi shikayatein....
tanhaiyon ke desh mein khud ko basa diya...

khud bhi woh hum se bichar kar adhura sa ho gaya....
mujh ko bhi itne loghon mein tanha bana diya....

Ansoo..

Bighi Palkon Tale Hum Ne Chupae Ansoo,
Hasna Chaha Maghar Ankh Me Aaye Ansoo,

Tum Ko Malum Shayad Ho Ke Na Ho,
Tere Jane Pe Bohat Hum Ne Bahaye Ansoo,

Pyar Ik Khel Kahan Tha? Ke Tamasha Karte,
Hum Ne Yeh Soch Ke Khud Se Bhi Chupaye Ansoo,

Jo Tere Sangh Beete The Vo Din Yaad Bhohat Aaye,
Hum Ne Teri Judai Pe Bahaye Ansoo,

Tu Sada Khush Rahe,
Abad Rahe,
Shad Rahe,
Teri Ankh Me Kabhi Ek Bhi Na Ae Ansoo..

FACEBOOK and ME....

Facebook is the place where I spend my most of time and love chatting with my friends on it and commenting on their latest profile updates which makes me happy and satisfied that i am in touch with all my friends.they sometimes reply to it but sometimes not but this is how it goes on Facebook and I love it.

I personally never accept friend requests anymore that don’t have a personal message with them. I don’t know who they are and they obviously didn’t take the time to see who I was either.

I always send a message when I send a friend request and I only send friend requests to my leads that I generate. That way when I see that a request has been accepted I know I need to pay extra attention to that person because they have already become a lead. I wonder why people do that do. Just click request? That’s not cool. I like to know who I want to connect with. Though some dont change no matter what, I’ve seen that some actually are very teachable and will do their best if shown the way.

NOW, if i talk about my facebook friends, there are many. Whenever i go online i find hundreds of people online and some of them alwayz sends me IM's which i usually don't prefer to reply because i know that it's gonna be a boring conversation. He/She will start with "HI", and end up saying "I AM FINE", and thats all. But it does'nt means that i dont like chatting, i really really do chat but with a few people whom i found intersting and who has got their back. And only through chatting, i've found some really interesting people, even i remember their names.. NILANJAN MUKHERJEE, ANURADHA UPADHYAE, SAURAV ANURAJ, SHWETA AGARWAL, DJ PROBZ, RUDHIR GURUNG, SMITI TAMANG, SHEULI.. and much more... (sorry if ur name is not mentioned)

Few of them i know very well, and few of them are in touch through facebook. So let me let me introduce few of them.



lets just start from SAURAV.. The Dabangg.. http://www.facebook.com/sauravanuraj1




HI im Saurav Anuraj...
My life revolves around only five major things. My Music, my sis, camera,lappy (photoshop) And my Frnds...
Take these things away from me and there is no meaning to my life...
Music is my sole companion that always cheers me up whenever I'm down.
When I feel sad or lonely, there is nothing better than headphones on full volume, a cup of coffee in hand, relaxing on my bed...
My sister is very special to me. She's my inspiration and I look up to her. Although we do fight, but what brother-sister don't? She's simply the best.
I simply cannot imagine a day going by without me using my camera or my lappy.
What can be better than trying to portray the beauty of the world around you?
I may not take my mobile phone with me when I go out, but you surely will find a camera with me.
Photography has been my hobby, is my passion, and I hope that it turns out to be a successful career.
I believe in Clicking moments not "Making" moments !! A line by a very successful photographer (I hope to follow suit :-P)
My friends are the best part of my life. Without them, I don't think there is any existence to me...
According to me, if a person even has 1-2 great friends, he is in heaven. And I consider myself really lucky that I have so many!
To all my friends, I have only one thing to say to you,
"I'll be there for you, when the rain starts to pour,
I'll be there for you, like I've been there before.
I'll be there for you, coz you're there for me too..."
Then ofcourse, there is my special one, My "MEOW". In a way she's been the reason that I have changed... A lot of my friends have told me so.
She's the biggest twist in my life, and I've learnt a great deal about myself by just knowing her...
I don't know if she will have the same feelings for me, but I can say this with confidence, that she sill always have a special place in my heart...
I have this Mantra in life : Don't aim to be a slave in Heaven, Aim to be a king... Even if in Hell!!

Now i'm shareing some secret things of my top 7 frnds........
Anup-that is a name of full argument..... always serious. bt actually he is loving to make suspence.... but gave him a nickname PULLU. bydwe we have two similarity. first of all we love driving(how did hell did u manage to brake my 150km/h record) n second we love making girlfrnd(still our relatioship status is single):P... Pullu is a good frnd,but hai thoda Kanjush...... overall such a gd frnd.
shweta-when i heard this name, god swear i was little bit afraid anytime,anywhere,without reason "DHAMKI bhari baaten krti hai";). otherwise she is a nice gal. love to eat chocolate,love to make frndshp and a good cook(jisko khane se sab datre hain). but one thing is missing.... her boyfriend:-P. afterall she is frnd of mine. i have a tension fr her.....
smiti-hmmm actually she is nt in my frndlist. but still i remember we communicate with each other so many times of pullu,billo,panku n vindi's status.i have no sis..... I wish if Smiti become my sweet n lovely sis.
Manoj-big brother of 6 frnds. not also big bro,he is a kind hearted person n a good friend. fully i respect him......
Pankaj-my one of best.he didn't receive my call at night(when i was in trouble with two monkeys). but always with me just like a shadow............................
Rohit-same words here applicable.personaly i didn't talk to him through .bt i know my rohit always remembering me.
At last in a few word i want to describe about my enemy shy(vindi)..god gave me such a good things bt also gave me a irritating person,name is shy sheuli.she has all bad habits,like rude behaviour,dhamki(Like Billo),cheating,blackmail blah blah blah.....
overall in 7frnds i always found my second home.




And here comes sheuli.. http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001622762256




well the name itself speaks loud on how she is n what she is.it's a flower which is vry soft n u got to hold her like the flower.the vry first letter of her name 's' is symmetric with the word 'sensitive' what she actually is.it is of rich fragrance n she also shower love n care fr everyone at the same way into her family including her frnds.still,if u want to discover something more of her,u got to impress her to become a frnd.

About my frnds.come to the vital point of describing my sweetest n lovely frnds.i have so many frnds,school frnds,college frnds n office frnds..bt now i'm talking about my fb frnds.i'm friendly to all bt friends of view.here i describing of my 7frnds -who r all angel,god gifted fr me.first of all i want to share something about SAURAV-who is actually just like a kid.all time u can find him as a heart broken lover.when he was born,he could speech just one word 'meow'..on the other hand he is a marvellous photographer..just like FARHAN of 3idiots.no interest about technology bt still now he is a IIT student.n i must say whenever i call him,or he call me,always 'ladte jhagadte hai'.over all he is a nice guy.second of all anup..he is full form of romanticism,masti,naughtyness,n ofcourse loving n careing person.he is an rj.he commited to me whenever i getting married he'l do me a favour-as a party organiser.ofcourse free of cost.bt he has a bad habit.he couldn't recv my call fr once time.ok doesn't matter.'khandani dushmani jo hai'..now i'm talking about shweta n smiti-i must say they r both look like a princes.soft heart,loving n caring.whenever i feel alone,they always support me.pankaj,manoj n rohit-accept manoj bhai,others two frnds just bandar.bt my good frnds.always irritating me,bt loving me same.i don't know what i wanted to say,at the last nt the list following 7frnds they r just my heart n soul..god bless them.



Lets talk about SHWETA... http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000817950620&ref=ts



Shweta.... she is popularly knwn as her papa's litl princess.., her moms best frnd nd her bro's jaan... In short her family's heart... Her life is like any1 else's, a roller coaster ride..wid al ups nd downs..twists n turns wich adds life to her life.. She loves her family above all nd cn do nythng dat takes 4 dem.. Her frnds are her jaan nd she cnt imagine herself widout dem..abov al her bhagwanji.. Who she firmly believes to be her best friend.. She believes in miracles, has faith in her relations nd takes signs 4m god.. She has lrnt to move ahead in life... Shweta is like any oder gal... Who dreams of him.. Who wud come in her life, and shower his love 4 her..trn it al around n mke it wondrful like a fairy tale.. Bt she knws life dsnt fulfil ur plans.. It hs got its own, so she nevr lets hrslf dwn.. She lives wid her head held high.. Nd her heart touches de skies...:):)...she has got a world of her own.. Undiscovered by anyone.. not even herself... de treasure kept for some1 she is waiting 4...♥.. as her

nme suggests.. its ' shwaet '.. Wich means white... It stnds 4 peace, prosperity, unity , love nd devotion...sincerity nd honesty..faith nd trust, loyalty nd love, care nd soothe.. U wil get it all 4m her.. She is friendly, caring, sensitive , naughty, loving, sometimes a 2 yr old kid, sometimes too matured.. But abov al she isnt fake .. She is straight forward, rite wat she is on ur face.. Dislikes flirts nd egoistic ppl ful of wrong attitude.. She has de hrt to giv u 1 wen u deserv it... Wel evn dis cnt wrap up me nd my life..

Now... about ME and MY DEAR ANUP... if i start off.. its never gonna end..i dnt see anup nd pankaj as two diff ppl.. dey both are my heart and soul... i cal al my frns as my angels.. bt dse two are my littl angels... my bettu.. my lucky charms.. my kweet ♥♥♥ .. My litl kids.. My guardians... Jitna bolo kamm hai... Dey stepped into my life togeda.. I dnt remembr dat date... At i do remembr 4th Dec '10...i nevr knew dat wud add to my world sumthn new... Wrds fall short 4 dem... dey r my mottu, my chubby pie, my tondumal.. My cutie jaana babu.. My baccha, my bettu..my hun.. showered me wd smiles nd surprises.. helped me wen no1 was around... ate my delite untasteful dishes.. always wishd de best 4 me.. lovd me unconditionally.. protected me.. taught me..cuddled me..teasd me,. bullied me.. tickled me..~.~ ...scared me @_@...snatched .. Pampered me... Chocolated me...lovd me,.. Hugged me.. Stood by me silently.. Wiped off my tears...helped me to smile.. Made me fearless...nd ya mde me fb, celphne , misty dilse

... misty dilse addict banaya... bt stil i love dat.... i love dem both a lot...
i owe to fb a lot... besides them it gave me 5 more angel like friends...namely saurav, sheuli, smiti, manoj ji, nd rohit....

SAURAV : he is a swthrt, d dabang, d slpless beauty whum at any hour of de nite i can find him awake to accompany me wid his saddu msgs..hehe... he trusted in me as his dear frn.. nd tels me i remind him of his meow.. i respect his happy club nd hav seen he is an innocent hrt.. alwayz makes me laugh at his jokes no matter hw silly dey r.. who says hes w8ng to hav sumthn cookd by me wich makes me happie, who is de bada baccha wid only love in his hrt.. no doubt an excellent photographer... one who is very caring too...:)

SHEULI : Very swt voice, vry sensitive | more dan me | , vry caring, hard working, sweet , and dramatic.. hehe... 4 whum i wish all de happiness nd who wishes 4 me too..:)... whose calls are always missed me.. dats purely unintentional.,. bt i knw shes a frnd forevr...:)


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HERE COMES PANKAJ...



Hello frnds...
PANKAJ AGARWAL myself...
well 2 describe about myself i can just say that i m a person who is very moody...i like to do things according to my mood...i have seen many ups and downs in life n can at least say that i have experienced life in its diverse colours...i was an average student at my school with a hardworking spirit...but i have always thought of doing as my heart says..as they say MENTAL SATISFACTION IS ALSO A MAJOR NECCESITY IN LIFE...i aspire to become a succesful person in my life...with lots of achievements in the corporate world...i see myself as an iconic businessman in the future...this was all about philosophically speaking of PANKAJ AGARWAL...

I Love my family a lot...say my parents..sisters...in laws evryone...
then come my friends...to say about my friends i am a person who is not at all selective in making friends...i like to make new friends...
i have a lots of friends...some of them went past me and i had to pass some of them by in the race of life...but no matter they are still in my hearts...some think i have cheated on them and for some i feel the same...but no matter this is the way life is...

FACEBOOK...a place where i spend most of my leisure moments and a place that has given me a lot...say the things i have always been longing for...friends made over here on facebook...some of them are unknown to me...also some of them were unknwon to me...some of them are my memorable sources of experiences...but still an important part of my life...

So,let me take this oppurtunity now to say what i feel for some of the dearest and most precious pals i have come accross in my life....

MANOJ BHAIYA...let me start with him as he is the senior most member of our family..
a guardian...a guiding light...a person who is always there for you whatever the situation may be...the one whom i respect a lot as my guardian,an elder brother...i thank facebook for providing me such a caring elder brother...

ANUP VERMA...let me make a confession guys...
the one to inspire me to join facebook was this guy...and above all if i am sharing your inbox today then he is one of the reasons for it...i have become all of your friends through this man...i know this guy since the last 2 years and i must say he has taught me a lot in life...i respect him a lot...we are good buddies...attitude has nothing to do between us...he is the one who speaks a little but that little does the complete stuff...trust me friends he can never advice you wrong...though at times he sounds harsh but still he is ONE OF THE BEST PERSONS I HAVE MET IN MY LIFE...

SHWETA AGARWAL....love you my angel...
an ideal girl to be the dearest friend to someone...a girl who is say the most dearest to me in this world as my friend...she has given me a lot in life...she has taught me to move ahead in life...she is the the most sensible,lovable,emotional yet very strong girl i have ever met in my life...she is the one who always stands there in the crowd to cheer you...she is the one who has always stood for me when the world stood against me...i owe to you a lot shweta...you are the one to change my life completely...THANKS

SAURAV ANURAJ...a complete entertainer...a friend who just simply wants friendship and nothing else...he is a guy who masters in the art of hiding emotions behind laughter and his stupid jokes...i know what's the stuff cooking inside you brother though i never asked you nor did you tell me...besides that you are a great photographer i must say...overall i would like to meet you very soon buddy...i always want you beside me...

SHY SHEULI...kolkata'r roshoglla...a girl who is really a roshogolla with her voice and her nature too...a very sweet girl who is a diamond...because she has faced many hardships of life and now she shines like a beautiful real diamond...it simply feels great to have a sweet sister like you in my portfolio...love you dear sis...

ROHIT SHARMA...a person whom i got to meet some 2 months ago...you impressed me a lot with your decency,calmness,sensiblity...i love every bit of your character...how can be a person so simple and so high in his thinking...it makes me feel very richer to have a friend like you in my wallet...

SMITI TAMANG...a friend who is new to me now...i dont know much about you...but as i much know of you from shweta and anup i can say you are a great buddy...a sweet girl...caring about her friends...i would love to have a friend like you beside me forever in my life....

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Now some words from smiti..
SMITI...




Hello everyone dis is SMITI TAMANG ,,one of the miss facebook queen..I hope u guys dont know the meaning of my name "SMITI",,lemme tell u ,Smiti means "KHUSHI"(Happiness).So i m always happy and fun loving and even make people smile.
I m simple,i think too much,i stay quiet,i dont like crowd,i love to be wid frens..
FACEBOOK is such a site which has made my life so beautiful with a bunch of lovely buddies namely --ANUP,SHWETA,SHEULI,MANOJ,PANKAJ,SAURAV,ROHIT...

So lemme share my feelings towards them,,I know i m nt good in expressing words still watever cums in my mind right now m writing .....:

"ANUP VERMA" :I met anup last year 2010 in Career Fair,since then we know each other..When i first met him,i thought that he is lil proud type..but slowly i came to know that no,m wrong.Anup is totally different from other guys.He is fun loving guy but at the same time very emotional and understanding.He is very professsional too.He calls me MUNNI and i call him "MUNNA"(HEHE nice name).He flirts wid me(LOL).He supports me a lot,advises,cares,scolds and loves me.He wants me to keep smiling,want me to be happy forever..I just wana say u anup--U r great human being,i appreciate u.Always be the same anup wid ur frens.let not any type of grudge or pride cum in between..we all love u and m sure will be best pals till the grave.
"SHWETA AGARWAL":Shweta ,i met her through anup's friend list .She was unknown face in facebook.I was just in imagination,i used to think how she looks.But later she happened to upload her pic.Wow ,that was a real surprise to me..Because i had thought that she had very innocent ,lovely,decent,cute face.and really she possessed it..She is my darling sis cum friend..I love u sweety,,and m always with you..She have supported me in my ups and downs..since we haven't met yet but yeah very soon we gona meet.

"SHY SHEULI": Sheuli is a sweet girl with a sweet voice..My only friend of Kolkata.I can proudly tell people that i have a best pal in kolkata.Sheuli is like my sis.Shweta and Sheuli both of them r like my eyes.I cant love my one eye,i love my both eyes,so same thing.Sheuli is very a friendly,innocent,cute and hardworking girl.I do care for u friend.We haven't met but i really wana meet u.U r always welcomed to siliguri,we all will be waiting for u sheuli.

"MANOJ SHARMA":Manoj ji is the only person who tells me always that wow i like the language u speak,and the hills ,,etc ..He appreciates me ..I like the way he is ,He is good at heart..

"PANKAJ AGARWAL": Pankaj is my new friend,we had a chat often.As far as i know he is a guy with manners,he respects me.I m sure even we will be best pals with the passage of time ..

"SAURAV ANURAJ": Since we are new friends ,we know lil bout each other..but i have a belief that will be good frens eva.Now our frienship is like a BUD ,it will take few days to bloom..

"ROHIT SHARMA": Rohit is very new to me ..I hope he is also a good guy ..


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Now.. Few Words from ANURADHA..



"मेरी नज़र से"... मैंने अपना सिर्फ एक नजरिया ज़ाहिर करने की कोशिश की है .खुद को हमेशा से मैंने एक कलाकार का दर्जा दिया है .हमेशा से खुद को कुछ ढूँढते हुए पाया..काफी सारे सवालों के घेरों से छूटते हुए पाया.हमेशा से अपने आप को खुद से ही घीरा हुआ देख खुद की बोहोत सी चीजों की समझ धीरे धीरे बढ़ती ही चली गयी.जिस की वजह से मैं इस लायक हुई हूँ की खुद को सब के सामने खुला रख सकूँ ,मैंने कोई बेडा नहीं उठाया है ,बस एक छोटी सी तमन्ना है ,और मकसद भी ,एक सोच रखना चाहती हूँ समाज में ,उन सब के बीच किसी जागृति की आकांक्षा लिए
उत्तर प्रदेश जैसे सुन्दर छेत्र में रहकर जब मैंने खुद के अस्तित्व को महेसूस करने का प्रयास किया,तब बोहोत सी मुसीबतों का सामना करने का नेक अवसर मेरे हाथ लगा , परन्तु यह सिर्फ एक जगह की बात नहीं है ,यहाँ मैं सारी इंसानियत को लेकर ये सवाल खड़ा करना चाहती हूँ .मैं बड़ी भाग्यशाली हूँ जो कला के इस मंदिर में खुद का योगदान देने का ये अवसर मुझे प्राप्त हुआ है ; पर सच मानिए तो ये अवसर मुझे प्राप्त नहीं हुआ,इस्से मैंने छीना है खुद की जिंदगी के लिए ,इस के लिए जो कुछ भी गंवाया उस का मुझे कोई अफ़सोस नहीं क्योंकि गंवाने के तुरंत बाद बोहोत कुछ सीखा भी.
मेरी पूरी जिंदगी को बयां करते ये काम ....मेरे लिए बोहोत महत्वपूर्ण हैं.खुद को अपनी जिंदगी से बाहर खड़ा कर ,उन सारे अनुभवों को दूर से स्पर्श करने की ये एक कोशिश है. नाकि सिर्फ मेरे खानदान बल्कि उन से जुदा हुआ हर वो समाज और आस पास का वैसा ही वातावरण जो उन्ही लोगों द्वारा बरसों से खड़ा किया गया है .जिन को मैंने जीने की कोशिश कई बार की ,परन्तु उन से कभी सहमत न हो सकी .मैं साफ़ साफ़ शब्दों से अपनी कला कृतियों को बयां नहीं कर सकती ,.पर मैं इतना जरूर कह सकती हूँ की इन कृतियों में मेरे साथ साथ हर उस लड़की ,औरत,नारी -चाहे जितने नाम कह लो ;की जिंदगी -भावनाएं ;दर्द ;सहनशीलता ;स्वाभिमान ;और विरोध छिपा हुआ है.मैं आशा करती हूँ की इन्हें हर कोई अलग अलग रूप से महसूस कर सकता है ,मेरा ध्येय एक जलती हुई लौव को इस समाज की बीच रखना है जो मानवता की मेरी इस सोच की नीव दाल सके .
हालां की मैं यह सारी चीजें तय करनेकी हकदार नहीं दर्शकों का भी उतना ही हक बनता है ,क्योंकि सब का नजरिया एक समान नहीं ,और इस विविधता की मैं इज्ज़त करती हूँ.मेरा ध्येय किसी भी जात या भात के लोगों का विरोध नहीं है.



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SOMETHING MISSING.. isn't it.. well.. as soon as my buzy friends gets time to write about themselves.. i'll post it here.. yet more to come.. more and more...

Lastly... u call dem online friends.. i call it luck and faith...!!

Something

We have something that holds us together
Something that made us both better
Something called being a friend
It makes the fun never end
And it helps me to know that when
I am down and blue
Because you’re my friend
I can count on you
We run through life without a care
Would anyone try to part us?
They wouldn’t dare
And when the time comes for me to go
I really want for you to know
That even though my life has come to and end
I will never stop being your friend

MY GEARS.....